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GOD'S PERFECT DESIGN (shortened and revised)


INTRODUCTION

 

Genesis 1 gives us an overview of all that God has created. The chapter begins with the words; “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth” and it ends with the words: “God saw all that He had made and it was very good.”

Now please note that God did only call things “very good” after He had created the man and the woman. Until then He had called His Creation “good” but it changed into something “very good” as soon as He had created the man and the woman.

 

We read of their creation in Genesis 1:26-28

 

“Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, in Our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth and over all the creatures that move along the ground.

So God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.

God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”

 

From this passage we can know that God created both the man and the woman to rule over creation together. This was to be done in perfect harmony, as a team on an equal basis. No one was to rule over the other; they were to rule creation together. We can be certain that this did take place exactly as God intended it.

 

THE HELPER

 

Genesis 2 gives us once again the Creation Account but this time God has given us details of events which took place on the sixth day. The main focus is the creation of the man and the woman. His initial creation act was that of creating the man as we can read in Genesis 2:7

 

“The Lord God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.”

 

When we continue reading Genesis 2 we discover that, contrary to the Creation Account in Genesis 1, something was “not good“.

 

We can read this in Genesis 2:18

 

“It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

 

Isn’t that an amazing statement for it shows God’s great concern for the man. Almighty

God, the Creator of the Universe, saw the man’s need, the man’s loneliness, perhaps even without the man fully realising it himself. And God decided to do something about it: He was going to provide him with a helper.

 

The word “helper” is the Hebrew word “ezer”. It appears about eighty times in the Biblical text and it always refers to a significant Being or person as God, a king, a prince or a warrior. The word “ezer” underscores how necessary a “helper” is. It is someone who is of great importance, who normally will relieve another from an immense problem and who is a loyal companion. It is not the Hebrew word for a slave, a hireling or an assistant.

 

God The Helper

 

Many Scriptures mention God as a Helper. Examples are:

 

Psalm 30:10

 

Hear, O Lord, and me merciful to me. O Lord be my help.”

 

Psalm 118:7

 

“The Lord is with me; He is my Helper.”

 

Isaiah 41:10

 

“So do not fear for I am with you; do not be dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right Hand.”

 

Other examples can be found in:

 

Genesis 49:24-25; 1 Chronicles 12:18; Psalm 10:14; Psalm 37:39-40; Psalm 54:4; Psalm 94:17; Psalm 118:13; Isaiah 41:14; Isaiah 44:2; Isaiah 49:8; Isaiah 50:7-9.

 

From these passages we can learn that in Scripture the word “helper” is used to indicate a stronger or superior party to help a weaker or inferior party and may be contrary to our understanding of the word “helper”. Now we may not have too many problems with such an understanding of the word “helper” in the case of God for He is after all the stronger or superior party compared to any one of us. But Scripture does not only mention God as a helper.

 

Other Helpers

 

The Old Testament in various places speaks about armies coming to the help of or being the helper of other armies as in:

 

II Chronicles 28:16

 

“At that time king Ahaz sent to the king of Assyria for help.”

 

Joshua 10:33

 

“Meanwhile, Horam king of Gezer, had come to the help of Lachish….”

 

The Woman As The Man’s Helper

 

Having looked at these examples of either God as the Helper or armies as helpers, we

 will now return to Genesis 2:18 where God said:

 

“It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

 

The original text once again uses the word “ezer”, the same term which we have seen having been used for God as well as for stronger or superior armies.

Does that mean that the woman as the man’s helper was created as the superior party? No for that would go against God’s design for the man and the woman. Therefore, in this case the term “kenegdo” has been added to the word “ezer”.

This word “kenegdo” is very important because it describes exactly what kind of helper God had given to the man. It was not God’s intention to give the man a helper who would be superior to him. Neither was it God’s intention to give the man a helper who would be inferior to him. No, this helper was formed to be exactly suitable for him, matching him, fitting him, corresponding to him, a counterpart to him, opposite to him.

 

This has not always been understood by Theologians as we can see from the words of the Protestant Reformer John Calvin:

 

“God did not create two chiefs of equal power but added to the man an inferior aid.”

 

Calvin’s view that the woman was added to the man as an inferior aid, made to obey him, was a view that was shared by many other Theologians of the past and is still taught today.

 

A modern day example is Wayne A. Grudem, Research Professor in Bible and Theology at Phoenix Seminary, Arizona, U.S.A. and the author of “Systematic Theology”, a book widely used in Evangelical circles today. He has said the following:

 

“Whenever someone helps someone else the person who is helping is occupying a subordinate or inferior position with regard to the person being helped.”…

 

However this is not a Scriptural view for it is a misinterpretation of the term “helper“ since the term means the one who strengthens. We can be certain that what God spoke in Genesis 1:26-28 that both the man and the woman were to rule creation together is confirmed in Genesis 2:18.

 

The Woman As The Man’s Rib

 

Having understood from Scripture that the woman as the man’s helper was to be formed as his equal in all respects which means her equality in being as well as in function, we will now look at how God did this, which will only confirm her equality to the man.

 

We’ll read Genesis 2:21-22

 

“So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep, and while he was sleeping, He took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh.

Then the Lord God made the woman from the rib He had taken out of the man and brought her to the man.”

 

Having created the man God went to work once again. This time He created the woman. Interestingly, He did not involve the man in this project. Perhaps He did not want the man to come up with some of his own ideas as to what an ideal woman might look like. Instead, God in His wisdom put the man to sleep. And then what did He do? Did He take another pile of dust, like what He done in the case of the man? No, this time He took a part of the man which has been translated as “rib”.

The Hebrew word for “rib” is “tsela” and has been used in other parts of the Old Testament when it has been translated as side or sides.

Examples are:

 

Exodus 25:12

 

“Cast four gold rings for it and fasten them to its four feet, with two rings on one side and two rings on the other.”

 

Exodus 26:26-27

 

“Also make crossbars from acacia wood; five for the frames of one side, five for those on the other side.”

 

In these passages the word “tsela” each time refers to an entire side and not just to a small part of a structure. It is only in Genesis 2:22 that the word “tsela” has been translated as “rib”.

 

Now we know that the woman was indeed made out of the man’s bones for the man exclaimed in Genesis 2:23a:

 

“This is now bone of my bones.”

 

However we know too that there was more to her for the man said as well:

 

“And flesh of my flesh.”

 

It is very likely that in the case of Genesis 2:22 the word “tsela” has been translated as “rib” because translators were influenced by Jewish Rabbis as Rabbi Joshua who had written:

 

“God deliberated from what member He would create woman, and He reasoned within Himself thus:

“I must not create her from Adam’s head for she would be a proud person, and hold her head high.

If I create her from the eye, then she will wish to pry into all things.

If from an ear, then she will wish to hear all things.

If from the mouth she will talk much.

If from the heart she will envy people.

If from the hand she will desire to make all things.

If from the feet she will always be going around.

Therefore I will create her from a member which is hid; that is, the rib, which is not even seen when man is naked.”

 

However, this points to a very biased view and is not in line with Scripture because in Scripture the term “tsela” clearly indicates that the woman was taken from the man’s side and confirms her equality to the man in every respect.

 

The man furthermore recognised that she was the “female human” and that he was the “male human” as we can see from Genesis 2:23b where we read:

 

“She shall be called woman for she was taken out of man.”

 

We see this confirmed in Genesis 5:2

 

He created them male and female and blessed them. And when they were created He called them man or human.”

 

And so God had met the man’s need, the man’s loneliness and the man was very glad indeed.

 

We can be certain that they ruled creation together, in perfect harmony, as a team, on an equal basis as designed by God.

 

THE FALL

 

The sad truth is that today many men and women do not function according to this wonderful design. The reason for our malfunctioning is an event called the Fall.

 

We find the account of the Fall in Genesis 3. It is a very sad story indeed.

 

When God created the man, He placed him in a Garden as we can read in

Genesis 2:15-17.

 

“The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. And the Lord God commanded the man, “You are free to eat from any Tree in the Garden, but you must not eat from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die.”

 

At that time God told the man that he could eat from any Tree, including the Tree of Life, but he was not to eat from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil.

 

Genesis 3 starts with the serpent approaching the woman, saying to her in verse 1:

 

Did God really say, “You must not eat from any Tree in the Garden?

 

Isn’t that interesting? Something evil had appeared on the scene, no doubt allowed by God, to test the man and the woman. We are not told how this evil being, using the serpent, came to be there.

And this serpent spoke to the woman. By his words: “Did God really say?” the serpent was trying to put doubt into the mind of the woman. This was very devious indeed. The woman, in her innocence, would not have recognised the evil hidden in these words. So far she had only encountered good things both through God and through the man. Therefore she was not at all prepared for this evil being to cross her path. Nothing in her anticipated for this serpent to have evil designs towards her and the man. Moreover the serpent would have still looked beautiful for no curse had as yet been spoken over him.

 

The woman’s answer can be found in Genesis 3:2-3.

 

“The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the Trees in the Garden, but God did say, “You must not eat fruit from the Tree that is in the middle of the Garden, and you must not touch it or you will die.”

 

Her statement shows us that she did indeed know that they were not eat of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. At the same time, she added certain things to her statement, which God had not said in His original command given to the man.

 

The serpent’s response is in Genesis 3:4-5.

 

“You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it, your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing Good and Evil.”

 

This statement is in blatant opposition to what God had said but it did make the woman look at the Tree which must have indeed look good for food and pleasing to they eyes. We can read this in Genesis 3:6

 

“When the woman saw that the fruit of the Tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband who was with her and he ate it.”

 

Please remember that the woman, while only looking, was still in a state of innocence, of sinlessness for God had not forbidden them to look at the Tree or even to touch it. They were not allowed to eat from it. It was after she had eaten from the Tree that things changed. Not just for her but for the man also, who incidentally was with her, very likely he had been with her throughout her conversation with the serpent and who ate of the fruit as well. What happened next is recorded in Genesis 3:7

 

“Then the eyes of both of them were opened and they realised that they were naked….”

 

Though physical death did not take place as yet, it did eventually happen, but what happened immediately was spiritual death, spiritual separation from God.

The man and the woman who had never been afraid of God, had become afraid of Him as we can see in Genesis 3:10

 

“Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as He was walking in the Garden in the cool of the day and they hid from the Lord God among the Trees of the Garden.”

 

The Consequences For The Man And The Woman

 

Did God know what had happened? Of course He did and yet He came to see the man and the woman. One of the reasons was that He needed to confront them with the consequences of their actions.

 

When God confronted the man with his sinful actions, the man’s initial response was to blame the woman whom God had given him as we can read in Genesis 3:11

 

“The man said, “The woman You (God) put here with me –she gave me some fruit from the Tree, and I ate it.”

 

This line of thinking seems to have been taken on by many of the Theologians of the past as we can see from the following examples:

 

St. Irenaeus of Lyon (2nd Century)

 

“It was the woman who cost the man his salvation…”

 

Tertullian (c.a. 155 to 245 A.D.)

 

“You (woman) are she who persuaded him (Adam) whom the devil was not valiant enough to attack. You woman are the devil’s gateway…”

 

St. John Chrysostom (c.a. 344 A.D. to 407 A.D.)

 

He transgressed not captivated by appetite but by the persuasion of his wife.”

 

John Calvin (1509 A.D. -1564 A.D.)

 

“…..Being drawn by her into fatal ambition, he became partaker of the same defection with her…”

“….The destruction of the whole human race was attributed to them (women)…”

 

However, God never blamed the woman for the man’s sinful action but made the man responsible for his own sinful action as we can read in Genesis 3:17-19

 

“To Adam He said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate from the Tree about which I commanded you, “You must not eat of it,”

“Cursed is the ground because of you;

through painful toil you will eat of it all the days if your life.

It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field.

By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground,

since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.”

 

The consequences for the woman’s sinful action are recorded in Genesis 3:16

 

“I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing,

with pain you will give birth to children.

Your desire will be for your husband.

And he will rule over you.”

 

This verse has caused much unnecessary suffering for women throughout the Centuries for many Theologians have interpreted this verse to mean that it was God’s will for women to suffer in childbirth. Consequently women were not allowed any medical relief during labour.

The sentence “Your desire will be for your husband” has often been interpreted to be of a sexual nature or a desire to usurp authority.

 

One example is the Roman Catholic Church Father Augustine who lived from

354 A.D. to 430 A.D.  He has written:

 

“What is the difference whether it is a wife or a mother; it is still Eve, the

temptress that we must be aware of in any woman.”

 

A more recent example is Wayne Grudem. He has written:

 

“ The word “desire” would indicate a desire on Eve’s part to rebel against Adam’s authority.”

 

The sentence “and he will rule over you” has often been interpreted as God’s command for the woman to be ruled by the man as a further form of punishment.

 

One example is the Protestant Reformer John Calvin. He has written:

 

“God assigned two reasons why women are to be subject to men. For not only did God enact it at the beginning, but God also inflicted it as a punishment on the woman….”

 

Their views are very much in line with those of Jewish Rabbis as found in the Babylonian Talmud, a commentary on the Torah which was written between the sixth Century B.C. and the third Century B.C.

 

The Talmud lists: “Ten Curses God uttered against Eve.”

 

“Greatly increase” deals with the woman’s menstrual curse.

“Your pains” is having children and bringing them up.

“Your conception” shall be by the husband’s choice and at his discretion.

“In pains you will give birth to children” is more punishment for women.”

“Your desire shall be for your husband” deals with the Rabbis’ private interpretation of sexuality.

“He shall rule over you”, the wife being in total subjection and subjugation, since the wife is the personal property of the husband.

She is wrapped up like a mourner.

She shall not appear in public with her head uncovered.

She is restricted to one husband while the husband may have many wives.

She is confined to the house.”

 

 These views may well be because of a mistranslation of the original text. A more correct translation of Genesis 3:16 is:

 

“I will surely multiply your toil, your hard work and I will multiply your conception.

With effort you will bring forth children.

You will turn to your husband,

And he will rule over you.”

 

God thereby declared to the woman that from then on it would be difficult to work the soil because of the curse placed on it. She needed to know this because she was working alongside the man and the curse placed on the soil would therefore affect her in the same way as it would affect him.

At the same time God affirmed to her that she would conceive and give birth to children though from then on childbearing would be challenging work.

God next forewarned her of a tendency which had developed out of her now sinful nature. This tendency would cause her to want to turn towards the man rather than turn towards God to have her needs met.

I believe women still display a tendency to turn  towards  their husbands, pastors or elders to have there needs met rather than turning towards God to have their needs met.

Consequently women will be disappointed for God has not designed men, be they husbands, pastors or elders to meet the needs of women. He alone is to be their Source of Life as described in Deuteronomy 30:20

 

“And that you may love the Lord your God, listen to His Voice, hold fast to Him. For the Lord is your Life.”

 

Furthermore God forewarned the woman that the man because of his now sinful nature would want to rule over her as His words “and he will rule over you” indicate.

 

An immediate example is the re-naming by the man of the woman in Genesis 3:20

 

“Adam named his wife Eve because she would be the mother of all the living.”

 

The Hebrew text uses a naming formula which includes both the Hebrew verb “qarah”, which means “to call”, and the Hebrew noun “shem”, which means “name”. This indicated that the re-naming by the man of the woman was an authoritative naming to establish his authority over her and was an act of independence for it was not a task the Lord had given to the man.

Examples of rightful authoritative naming can be found in Genesis 2:19-20 and

Genesis 5:2

Previously God has given the man the task of naming the animals in Genesis 2:19-20

 

“Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them. And whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. So the man gave name to all the livestock, the birds of the air and the beasts of the

field.”

 

This had been an act to establish his rightful authority over creation as initiated by God.

But when God brought the woman to the man He did not require of the man that the man name the woman as we can see in Genesis 2:22

 

“Then the Lord God made the woman from the rib, He had taken out of the man and He brought her to the man.”

 

Though man at that time recognised that she was the woman and he was the man as in Genesis 2:23 where the man said:

 

“She is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh, she shall be called woman for she was taken out of man”

 

this was not an act of authoritative naming but a recognition that she was a human being like himself. The Hebrew text makes this clear for this time the naming formula has not been used since the word “shem”, “name” has not been included in the text.

Having first of all recognised her similarity, he then went on to speak of the difference between him and the woman for she was the female human and he was the male human.

 

The reason that God did not ask the man to name the woman is because God had not given the man the responsibility to rule over the woman. Moreover God Himself had already named her as we know from Genesis 5:2

 

“He created them male and female. And He blessed them. And when they were created He called them “man or human”.

 

The Hebrew text once again uses the naming formula “quarah”, “to call” and “shem”, “name” to indicate this naming was an authoritative naming.

So God named both the man and he woman “man”, “human” or “Adam”.

We could say they were Mr and Mrs Man, Mr and Mrs Human or Mr and Mrs Adam.

 

Going back to the words God had spoken to the woman about the promise of her offspring, she would have remembered that God had already spoken of her offspring in His words to the serpent, which are recorded in Genesis 3:15

 

“And I will put enmity between you and the woman,

and between our offspring and hers;

He will crush your head and you will strike His heel.”

 

These words contained the promise of the woman’s seed, the woman’s offspring and would have given her something to live for.

Though the woman did not know it, this was in fact the very first Messianic prophecy.

 

Did God fulfil the promise of the Seed? Yes, indeed He did. And when the Seed came, the Messiah, the Lord Jesus Christ He restored what was lost and more….

 

THE PROMISED SEED OF THE WOMAN

 

It might perhaps be helpful to see what exactly Christ has done for us…

 

One of the issues we may want to consider is the ruling of men over women that God forewarned the woman about in Genesis 3:16. Sadly we have seen the ruling of men over women happened throughout history and we still see it happen today.

Yet in the midst of this sad picture there has come a glimmer of hope in the form of a Cross with the broken body of a man hanging on it. Who was this Man? It was the Man/God Jesus Christ, the Saviour of the world.

 

He died so that men and women might have life as the Apostle John expressed it in John 10:10

 

“I have come that they may have life and have it to the full.”

 

Through Christ’s death on the Cross, the effects of the Fall were reversed. What had been lost: the relationship with God and the relationship with one another on equal terms have been restored.

 

Furthermore men and women who are in Christ have been given authority. This is a delegated authority for it flows out the authority Christ has been given by His Father in Matthew 28:18-20

 

“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptising them in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. And teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

 

We need to understand this authority does not give anyone the right to lord it over another, to rule another for Christ did not come to be served but to serve as Jesus said in Matthew 20:25-28

 

“You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them. Not so with you. Instead whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant and whoever wants to be first must be your slave -just as the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”   

 

Therefore Christ’s followers, be they men or women, have only been given authority to serve others.

 

This message of restoration because of Christ’s death on the Cross is a major theme throughout the New Testament.

 

Because of it men and women who are in Christ have become new creations according to II Corinthians 5:17

 

“Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation ; the old has gone, the new has come.”

 

They are to forget the past according to Philippians 3:13

 

“This I do, forgetting what is behind and straining towards what is ahead.”

 

Furthermore they have become the righteousness of God according to

II Corinthians 5:21

 

“God made Him who had no sin to become sin for us so that in Him we might become the righteousness of God.“

 

There is no condemnation for them according to Romans 8:1-2

 

“Therefore there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus because through Christ Jesus the Law of the Spirit of Life has set me free from the Law of Sin and Death.”

 

They are heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ according to Romans 8:17

 

“Now if we are children then we are heirs -heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ.”

 

They have been seated with Christ in the heavenly realms according to Ephesians 2:6

 

And God raised us up with Christ and has seated us with Him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus.”

 

 And they are blessed with every spiritual blessing in Christ according to Ephesians 1:3

 

Praise be to the God and father of our Lord Jesus Christ who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ.”

 

That is very good news indeed!!

 

Furthermore the Apostle Paul taught in I Corinthians Chapters 12-14 and in

Romans 12:4-8 that every believer, be they male or female, was a part of the Body of Christ and was to function as part of the Body with the gift or gifts given by the Holy Spirit for the benefit of others. These gifts were given as the Holy Spirit determined without race, class or gender distinction.

 

One example of the gifts of the Spirit working through both men and women can be seen in I Corinthians 11:4-5

 

“Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered, dishonours his head.

And every woman, who prays or prophecies with her head uncovered, dishonours her head.”

 

These verses are a part of a larger segment of Scripture which begins with

I Corinthians 11:3 and ends with I Corinthians 11:16. This is quite a complicated passage of Scripture and because of it we may not appreciate the fact that Paul allowed both men and women to pray and prophesy in public.

And he explained in I Corinthians 14:29-31 that the function of prophecy included teaching “Two or three prophets should speak, and others should weigh carefully what is said. And if a revelation comes to someone who is sitting down, the first speaker should stop. For you can all prophesy in turn so that everyone may be instructed and encouraged.

 

From these verses we can see that one of the main functions of prophecy is instruction or teaching so Paul obviously expected both men and women to teach others.

 

That puts a responsibility on each believer, be they male or female to use their God-given gifts and leaders are to make room for believers to function in their gifts.

 

God is not pleased with excuses such as “I am too old” or “I am too young” or “I am of the wrong background”.

Other excuses we might want to use sound as if they have come straight out of the Word of God. Perhaps you recognise some of them.

 

“Man is the Head Of The Woman”.

 

“A woman is to submit to a man in the Church and at home a wife is to submit to her husband.”

 

“A woman is to be silent”

 

“A woman is not allowed to teach or to have authority over a man.”

 

These statements need careful consideration though we must always remember that they need to be read in the light of the wider context of Scripture. They cannot overrule what Scripture teaches in general with regard to men and women. It would be wrong for any one of us to build a case defending a particular viewpoint based only on one or two passages of Scripture.

 

We must remember as well that the inspired and infallible Word of God contains material that, though we may learn from it, may not be applicable to us in the same way that was meant to those to whom it was written.

 

An example in the Old Testament would be the purification ritual a woman would have to undergo because of her ceremonial uncleanness after her monthly period or after the birth of a child as described in Leviticus 12 and Leviticus 15:19-30.

 

An example from the New Testament would be the issue of food that had been sacrificed to idols as discussed by the Apostle Paul in I Corinthians 8. This must have been a real issue in Corinth affecting Christians which then and there needed to be addressed. However that is not the case today. Therefore we cannot relate to this passage in the same way that those believers did.

 

Therefore it may at times be helpful to have some background information to help us understand how to apply what is written in certain passage in the Scriptures. This makes sense, of course, for Scripture was written long ago over a long period of time and it deals with different people of different cultures.

 

We’ll first of all look at the statement:

 

“Man Is The Head Of The Woman”

 

We find this mentioned in I Corinthians 11:3

 

“The head of every man is Christ. The head of the woman is the man, and the head of Christ is God.”

 

In the English language the word “head” means either “a part of our physical body” or someone in a position of “authority” or “power” for instance “the head of a department” or “the head of a company”.

 

In the Greek language of Paul’s days the word “head” could mean these things depending on the particular Greek term the author had chosen. Paul in I Corinthians 11:3 had chosen the word “kephale” which can mean “physical head” or “source, source of life”. However, it does not mean “authority” or “power”.

We can see this from the order in which Paul listed the three pairs:

every man/Christ”, “woman/man” and “Christ/God.”

If he had given us a hierarchical order to establish authority, he would have written:

“Christ/God”, “every man/Christ” and “woman/man” but he has not done so.

Paul, who was a very orderly writer, had something completely different in mind namely a chronological order to establish that “head” meant “source”. As such the chronological order makes perfect sense for Christ was the source of life for the first man from whom every man descended, the first man was the source of life for the first woman and God was the source of life for Christ in His Incarnation.

 

Some background information might be helpful here. The people to whom Paul was writing had been influenced by the pagan belief that the woman was made of a substance different from and inferior to the man. By using the term “kephale” Paul was correcting this error and confirming the Creation Account as given to us in Genesis 2:21-22 that tells us that the woman was made from the man’s rib or in fact side and thereby confirmed the equality of the woman to the man.

 

Another example of the man as the head as the woman can be found in Ephesians 5:23

 

For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church, of which He is the Saviour.”

 

Once again Paul used the word “kephale” to describe the husband’s function as “head of his wife“. Not only did Paul make it very clear from the word he had chosen that this function as “head” did not mean “authority” or “power” but he went on to specify which example husbands were to follow. They were to follow the highest example, namely Christ’s example as Head of the Church in His role as Saviour of the Church.

 

Now we know that Christ functions not only as Head but as Lord, as King, as Priest, as Intercessor among other things. However, it is only in connection with Christ’s function as Head of the Church, which is associated with His role as Saviour of the Church, that Paul mentioned the husband’s function as head of his wife. 

 

This means that Paul did not associate the husband’s function as “head of his wife” with Christ’s function as Lord, as King, as Priest, as Intercessor but only with Christ’s function as Saviour which is a sacrificial function and not a ruling function.

 

Paul emphasised this in Ephesians 5:25

 

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her.”

 

Therefore, according to Paul, the function of any husband as “head of his wife” was to be a loving, serving, ministering, nourishing, self-giving, sacrificial function without even a hint of authority or ruling attached to it.

 

Another statement we’ll look at is:

 

“A Woman Is To Submit To A Man At Church And At Home A Wife Is To Submit To Her Husband.”

 

The Greek word for submission is “hupotasso” and means “aligning oneself with another”, “giving allegiance to another” “tending to the needs of another”, “be supportive of another”, “be responsive to another”, “complying with the wishes of another” or “responsible behaviour towards another”.

 

An example is Ephesians 5:21-22

 

“Submit to one another out of reverence for God. Wives submit to your husbands as to the Lord.”

 

The original text reads as follows:

 

“Submit to one another out of reverence to God. Wives to husbands as to the Lord.”

 

We have here a case where the author has left an important word out of the text since its meaning can be understood by what he previously had written. The translators have added the missing word to the translated text, which they were able to do by studying the original text.

 

It might be helpful for us to have some understanding of the cultural background of the people Paul was dealing with.

At that time, married Gentile women were still under the authority of their parental household. Paul encouraged them to separate themselves from their parental household and to voluntarily submit, meaning to align themselves with their husbands and so to form a new household under the Lordship of Christ. That would have been a major challenge since many of them would have come from pagan households.

 

Furthermore Paul in that same passage instructed husbands to love their wives and to love them sacrificially. That too would have been a completely new teaching for those men since according to their background wives were only useful as carers of the home and providers of offspring, preferably male.

 

The next statement we’ll look at is:

 

“A Woman Is To Be Silent

 

An example is I Corinthians 14:34-35

 

“Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. If they want to enquire about something they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.”

 

This is quite an interesting statement. Particularly if it came from Paul for he had not too long ago, to be exact in I Corinthians 11:4-5 confirmed that women could pray and prophesy. Now I don’t know about you but to me people, be they men or women who pray or prophesy use words to pray or prophesy and are therefore not exactly silent when praying or prophesying.

 

Theologians have come up with a number of views

 

The Protestant Reformer Calvin’s comment on this passage is as follows:

 

“When he (Paul) reproves them for prophesying with their heads uncovered, he at the same time does not give them permission to prophesy in some other way but rather delays his condemnation of his vice to another passage namely in

I Corinthians 14.”

 

This is rather a curious statement is it not? The Reformer here calls the prophesying of women a “vice” which though seemingly encouraged by the Apostle Paul in

I Corinthians 11:4-5 is then supposedly withdrawn by him in I Corinthians 14. The Reformer seems to imply here that the Holy Spirit, who is the Source behind Paul’s words, changed His mind about women praying and prophesying at some point between Chapters 11 and 14. However, this is of course not a correct view.

 

A more recent comment on this passage is from Wayne Grudem which is as follows:

 

“In this section Paul cannot be prohibiting all public speech by women in the Church for he clearly allows them to pray and prophesy in Church in I Corinthians 11:5  Understanding of this passage depends on our view of the gift of prophecy, namely that prophecy involves not authorative Bible teaching… For Paul is concerned to preserve male leadership in the teaching and governing of the Church.”

 

Though Wayne Grudem does allow women to pray and prophesy his view of prophecy is not in line with I Corinthians 14:29-31 where Paul wrote that prophecy was for instruction and encouragement. This clearly includes an element of teaching which Wayne Grudem does not allow for.

 

The reasons we have such difficulties with understanding I Corinthians 14:34-35 is because we do not necessarily realise that these verses were not in fact Paul’s own words but a quotation from a letter he had received from the Church leaders in Corinth.

His answer, in the form of a rebuke, can be found in I Corinthians 14:36

 

“Did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached? If anybody thinks he is a prophet or spiritually gifted, let him acknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord’s command. If he ignores this, he himself will be ignored.”

 

Paul actually began this passage with an expression which has been left out by most translators and which best can be translated as “Utter rubbish.” He then went on to say: “Did the word of God originate with you…”

He thereby declared that the view of these people influenced by a collection of orally preserved Traditions called “The Law” was invalid.

 

A Jewish historian Josephus who lived form 37 A.D. to about 100 A.D. used this collection of orally preserved Traditions, this Law in his writings:

 

“The woman, says the Law, is in all things inferior to the man. Let her accordingly be submissive.”

 

The fact is all Jewish Regulations for women were based on Commentaries on the Old Testament and not on the Old Testament itself.

 

The last statement we’ll look at is:

 

“ A Woman Is Not To Teach Or To Have Authority Over A Man”

 

An Example is I Timothy 2:11-15

 

“A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.

I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent.

For Adam was formed first, then Eve.

And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.

But women will be saved through childbearing -if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.”

 

Traditionally this passage has been interpreted to mean that women in general are not allowed to teach. Those who have taught this have based this first of all on the so-called “Creation Order” related to the sentence: “For Adam was formed first, then Eve” and secondly on the sentence: “It was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.”

 

The Protestant Reformer John Calvin’s comment on this passage is along these lines:

 

1.“Women are to be silent quiet because they must keep within their own rank. She was created afterwards, in order that she might be a kind of appendage to the man to render obedience to him….”

 

He continues:

 

2. “God having assigned the woman to subjection at the beginning, furthermore inflicted the rulership of the man as a punishment at the time of the Fall. She is not to improve her condition…..”

 

We have already seen that this view is incorrect.

 

3. “The weakness of the sex renders women suspicious and timid.”

 

Though weak in herself, the woman who is in Christ will have the power of God working in her and through her.

 

4. “The destruction of the whole human race was attributed to them (meaning to women)….”

 

Now we know that God did not blame the woman specifically for the Fall of mankind but made both the man and the woman responsible for their sin.

 

5. “Their subjection as a testimony of the wrath of God is constantly placed before their eyes.”

 

Thankfully Christ redeemed men and women from the curse by becoming a curse for us as in Galatians 3:13

 

“Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us.”

 

Because of it men and women can come boldly before the Throne of Grace according to Hebrews 4:16

 

 Let us then approach the Throne of Grace with confidence.”

 

6. “They suffer temporal punishment.”

 

This is Roman Catholic Dogma to which men and women who are in Christ do not prescribe for we know that God’s punishment for sin was paid in full at the Cross as in Isaiah 53:5

 

“The punishment that brought us peace was upon Him.”

 

7. “When a woman considering to what she has been called, submits to the condition which God has assigned to her and does not refuse the pains of childbearing or anxiety about her offspring….”

 

God calls women to many functions which may or may not include marriage and motherhood. Furthermore, childbearing may be challenging but woman are not called by God to suffer unnecessarily as Calvin seemed to think.

A woman’s field of labour may therefore include her home but may not exclusively be her home.

 

Part of Wayne Grudem’s comment on I Timothy 2:11-14 is as follows:

 

“Should women be Pastors or Elders in the Churches? The single passage in Scripture that addresses this question most directly is I Timothy 2:11-14.

Here Paul is speaking about the Church when it is assembled. In such a setting, Paul says, “I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men.” These are the functions that are carried out by the Elders of the Church…. It is specifically these functions unique to Elders that Paul prohibits for women in the Church. The reason Paul gives for this prohibition is the situation of Adam and Eve before the Fall, and before there was any sin in the world, and the way in which a reversal in male and female roles occurred at the time of the Fall.

…..So Paul uses the fact that “Adam was formed first, then Eve” as a reason for restricting some distinct governing and teaching roles in the Church to men.”

 

It is interesting to me that Wayne Grudem’s comments are based only on

I Timothy 2:11-14. He does not include verse 15, which is clearly a part of this section of Scripture. This may well be because he uses the literal interpretation method to interpret verses 11-14 and he knows that this interpretation method cannot be applied to verse 15. Sadly this has not made Wayne Grudem consider the possibility that likewise verses

11-14 may need to be interpreted differently.

 

Having looked at these interpretations of I Timothy 2:11-15 it becomes very clear that many theologians have not considered the specific people about whom Paul was writing to Timothy nor their particular problems.

 

We will now look at I Timothy 2:11-15 taking into account those it was about and their particular issues.

 

This passage begins with the words:

 

“A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.

…………………………….She must be silent.”

 

Paul began this passage by instructing that certain women should be taught right doctrine. We need to remember that Paul’s desire for women to be taught was in fact a very radical idea for women were generally not taught apart from the art of homemaking.

Furthermore Paul wrote that these women were to learn in a quiet and submissive manner or in a restful quietness as the term “silent” indicates.

 

The next statement is :

 

“I do not allow a woman to teach”

 

Paul did not yet  allow these women to teach because they had to learn right doctrine first.

 

He then wrote:

They were not to have authority over men”

 

 Paul used here the Greek word “authentein” which has been translated as “authority”. This word “authentein” appears only once in Scripture and has always had a very negative meaning, including domineering.

Paul therefore did not say here that women were not allowed to have authority over men. He simply stated that they were not to behave towards men in an inappropriate manner, in a manner which was contrary to his teachings.

The attitude of these women may have come because of false teaching these women had received which Paul addressed in the following section:

 

“For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.”

 

The false teachings these women had received would have included errors regarding the Creation Account and the Fall. For instance that the woman was created before the man and the eating of the fruit had been a good thing for through it they had supposedly received special knowledge. Paul was correcting these errors.

 

The final verse in this passage is:

 

“But women will be saved through childbearing –if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.”

 

In this verse Paul corrected the false teaching as spelled out in I Timothy 4:1-3  by writing that marriage and childbearing were blessed by God and were not obstacles to a close and intimate walk with God as these false teachers claimed.

 

“The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth.”

 

I Timothy 2: 11-15 was clearly written with the Church at Ephesus in mind and does not deal with the role of women in general. Though we can learn from it, we must realise that this passage cannot be applied to all women everywhere and at all times as has frequently been done.

 

Furthermore we need to remember that Paul’s Letters were not only written to different Churches, they were written at different times. For instance the Letter to the Galatians was written between 48 A.D. - 52 A.D., the First Letter to the Corinthians was written around 56 A.D. and the First Letter to Timothy was written around 63 A.D. Therefore this Letter could not have been used as a teaching tool for the larger Body of Christ for a number of years since it was not yet in existence. We tend to forget that when we read our New Testament because we have easy access to any one of these Letters regardless to whom they were written and in what year they were written originally.

 

The Woman Not Among The Twelve

 

It is true that Jesus did not include women in His Team of the Twelve. This is most likely because Jesus knew that, though He had comes as the Saviour of the world, His teaching and preaching ministry was mainly limited to the Jewish nation, a nation steeped in Traditions beyond the Scriptures, which had severely limited the role of women.

His choice of twelve men was very much with this nation in mind. I would like to add that they were twelve Jewish men because neither men of Gentile descent nor women would have been accepted while the number twelve reflects the number of tribes of Israel.

However we see that Jesus had been teaching women, healing women, allowing women to be His disciples and sending them on preaching missions, thereby preparing the way for women to be fully engaged in the work of God’s Kingdom expecting this to be continued and expanded beyond what He Himself had already established.

 

GOD'S WORD COMES TO US THROUGH A WOMAN

 

We have in fact a number of places in Scripture where God’s Word comes to us through a woman. These words will have been read by and ministered to men and women throughout the Centuries, just as they still minister to us today.

 

Examples are:

 

Miriam’s Song in Exodus 15:20-21

 

“Then Miriam the Prophetess, Aaron’s sister, took a tambourine in her hand and all the women followed her with the tambourines and dancing.

Miriam sang to them; “Sing to the Lord for He is highly exalted. The horse and its rider He has hurled into the sea.”

 

Deborah’s Song in Judges 5 (1-9)

 

“On that day Deborah and Barak son of Abinoam sang this song:

“When the princes in Israel take the land, when the people willingly offer themselves -praise the Lord. Hear this you kings! Listen you rulers”

I will sing to the Lord, I will sing: I will make music to the Lord, the God of Israel.

O, Lord when you went out from Sei, when you marched from the land of Edom,

the earth shook, the heavens poured, the clouds poured down water.

The mountains quaked before the Lord, the One of Sinai,

before the Lord, the God of Israel.

In the days of Shamgar, son of Anath, in the days of Jael the roads were abandoned; travellers took to winding paths.

Village life ceased until I, Deborah, arose, a mother in Israel.

When they chose new gods, war came to the city gates and not a shield or spear was seen among forty thousand in Israel.

My heart is with Israel’s princes, with the willing volunteers among the people.

Praise the Lord…..” 

 

Hannah’s Prayer in I Samuel 2:1-10

 

“Then Hannah prayed and said:

“My heart rejoices in the Lord; in the Lord is my horn lifted high.

My mouth boasts over my enemies for I delight in Your deliverance.

There is no-one holy like the Lord, there is no-one besides You:

there is no Rock like our God.

Do not keep talking so proudly or let your mouth speak arrogance

for the Lord is a God who knows and by Him deeds are weighed.

The bows of the warriors are broken but those who stumbled are armed with strength.

Those who were full hire themselves out for good but those were hungry hunger no more.

She who was barren has borne seven children,

but she who has had many sons pines away.

The Lord brings death and makes alive;

He brings down to the grave and raises up.

The Lord send poverty and wealth;

He humbles and He exalts.

He raises the poor from the dust and lifts the needy from the ash heap;

He seats them with princes and has them inherit a throne of honour.

For the foundations of the earth are the Lord’s; upon them He has set the world.

He will guard the feet of His saints, but the wicked will be silenced in darkness.

It is not by strength that one prevails; those who oppose the Lord will be shattered.

He will thunder against them from heaven; the Lord will judge the ends of the earth.”   

 

Mary’s Song in Luke 1:46-55

 

“And Mary said: My soul glorifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour,

for He has been mindful of the humble state of His servant.

From now on all generations will call me blessed,

for the Mighty One has done great things for me –holy is His Name.

His mercy extends to those who fear Him, from generation to generation.

He has performed mighty deeds with His arm;

He has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts.

He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble.

He has filled the hungry with good things but has sent the rich away empty.

He has helped His servant Israel,

remembering to be merciful to Abraham and his descendants for ever,

even as He said to our fathers.” 

 

The Holy Spirit inspired these women to write down these words which were included in the infallible and authorative Word of God and contain great insights into the character of God. That perhaps more than anything else speaks of God’s approval of women in whatever function He may have chosen for them.

 

THE OLD TESTAMENT WOMAN

 

It might be good to give examples of women mentioned in Scripture who functioned in a variety of ways as called by God.

Some of the women mentioned in the Old Testament are:

 

Miriam

 

Scripture describes her as a prophetess in Exodus 15:20

 

“Then Miriam the Prophetess, Aaron’s sister, took a tambourine in her hand and all the women followed her with tambourines and dancing.”

 

Furthermore she was considered a leader beside her brothers Moses and Aaron in

Micah 6:4.

 

“I brought you up out of Egypt and redeemed you from the land of slavery. I sent Moses to lead you and Aaron and Miriam.”

 

Another example is Deborah whose story we can read in Judges 4-5.

She was a Judge over the nation of Israel and a Prophetess. Under her guidance the land had peace for forty years.

 

A further example is Hulda. We read her story in II Kings 22:11-20.

 

She had an established Prophetic ministry which was recognised by the king, the priest and other leading figures in the nation. Her message re-established God’s Covenant with the nation.

 

THE NEW TESTAMENT WOMAN

 

Just as God called women under the Old Covenant to function in ways that He had chosen likewise in the New Testament we have examples of women who were chosen and called by God to fulfil His purpose here on earth. These women did not call themselves to the positions they functioned in. No, they were chosen and called by God as He determined. Furthermore they were equipped by Him to fulfil their task and because their gifts were recognised by other New Testament believers they were not prevented from fulfilling their calling but were encouraged to be faithful in the things God called them to do.

 

The New Testament Woman As Co-Worker

 

Women functioned as Paul’s Co-Workers. We have a list of his Co-Workers in Romans 16: 3-15 some of whom were male Co-Workers and others were female Co-Workers such as Priscilla (Romans 16:3), Mary (Romans 16:6), Tryphena, Tryphosa and Persis (Romans 16:12).

 

Paul furthermore mentioned two female Co-Workers and one male Co-Worker in Philippians 4:2-3

 

“I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to agree with each other in the Lord. Yes, and I ask you, loyal yokefellows, help these women who have contended at my side in the cause of the Gospel, along with Clement and the rest of my fellow-workers, whose names are in the Book of Life.”

 

We may not have details of the activities of these men and women but we can be certain that their work would have involved the preaching of the Gospel, very likely at great cost to themselves.

 

Paul in I Corinthians 16:15-16 told the Church in Corinth how to behave towards those who laboured with him in the Gospel:

 

“You know that the household of Stephanas were the first converts in Achaia and they have devoted themselves to the service of the saints. I urge you, brothers, to submit to such as these and to everyone who joins in the work and labours at it.”

 

Here Paul was saying to the Church in Corinth that he desired for the whole Church, including the leadership of the Church, to submit themselves to those who laboured with him in the Gospel. He did not say that they were to submit themselves to just anybody who passed through. No, he specified the group of people he desired them to submit to: the ones who laboured with him in the Gospel and as we have already seen this group of Co-Workers consisted of both men and women.

 

The New Testament Woman As Teacher

 

The New Testament mentions women Teachers one of whom was Priscilla.

 

Priscilla and her husband Aquila were tentmakers by profession. They were originally from Rome but had gone to Corinth where they met Paul. They later on travelled with Paul to Ephesus where they met Apollos according to Acts 18:24-26

 

“Meanwhile a Jew named Apollos, a native of Alexandria, came to Ephesus. He was a learned man, with a thorough knowledge of the Scriptures. He had been instructed in the way of the Lord, and he spoke with great fervour and taught about Jesus accurately, though he knew only the baptism of John.

He began to speak boldly in the synagogue . When Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they invited him to their home and explained to him the way of God more adequately.”

 

From this passage we learn that both Priscilla and Aquila functioned as Teachers in the Body of Christ. One of their students was a man named Apollos who no doubt, because of Priscilla’s and Aquila’s influence on his life as Teachers, eventually became a Fellow-Worker with Paul.

Interestingly Priscilla is mentioned before her husband possibly indicating that she was the more important Teacher of the two.

 

The New Testament Woman As Prophet

 

The New Testament mentions women who prophesied as in Acts 21:8-9

 

“Leaving the next day we reached Caesarea and stayed at the house of Philip the evangelist, one of the Seven. He had four unmarried daughters who prophesied.”

 

Even though we do not have specific details of the prophecies spoken by these women we can be certain that they would have fulfilled the requirements outlined by Paul in

I Corinthians 14:29-31. Therefore these prophecies would have included instruction as well as encouragement.

 

The New Testament Woman As Apostle

 

It is true that Jesus did not include women in his group of Twelve, the “Apostles of the Lamb”. However the New Testament mentions another group of Apostles who had never seen Christ but were involved with the Apostles in pioneering missionary efforts.

 

Examples are: Barnabas as in Acts 14:14

 

“But when the Apostles Barnabas and Paul heard of this, they tore their clothes and rushed out into the crowds, shouting.”

 

 Epaphroditus as in Philippians 2:25

 

“But I think it is necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus, my brother, Fellow-Worker and Fellow-Soldier, who is also your messenger, whom you sent to take care of my needs.”

 

And a couple named Andronicus and Junia(s). Their names are mentioned in Romans 16:7

 

“Greet Andronicus and Junia(s), my relatives who have been in prison with me. They are outstanding among the apostles, and they were in Christ before me.”

 

These two people functioned as Apostles. Some translators have translated the name “Junia” into “Junias“. However this is not a correct translation for the name should be translated as “Junia” which is a female name.

This means that we know at least one woman who functioned as an Apostle in the Early Church.

 

The New Testament Woman As Deacon

 

The New Testament mentions women as deacons as for instance in Romans 16:1-2

 

“I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant in the Church in Cenchrea. I ask you to receiver her in the Lord in a way worthy of the saints and to give her any help she may need from you, for she has been a great help to many people, including me.”

 

The Greek word used to describe here Phoebe’s function is the word “diakonos” and may be translated as servant, attendant, minister or deacon.

This word has been used many times in the New Testament to describe the ministry of, for instance, Apollos as in I Corinthians 3:5

 

“What is after all Apollos? And what is Paul? Only servants through whom you came to believe -as the Lord has assigned to each his task.” 

 

Paul as in Ephesians 3:7

 

I became a servant of this Gospel by the gift of God’s grace given me through the working of His power.”

 

 Timothy as in I Thessalonians 3:2

 

we sent Timothy who is our brother and Fellow-Worker in spreading the Gospel of Christ to strengthen and encourage you in your faith.“

 

Tychicus as in Ephesians 6:21

 

Tychicus, the dear brother and faithful servant in the Lord, will tell you everything so that you also may know how I am and what I am doing.”

 

Epaphras as in Colossians 1:7

 

“You learned it from Epaphras, our dear fellow-servant who is a faithful minister of Christ on our behalf.”

 

Likewise Phoebe functioned as a female Deacon in her local Church. Paul furthermore praised her for the help she had been to many people, including himself. The word “help” here is the Greek word “prostatis” which means a Patroness, a woman who protects, a woman set over others.

Paul used this term in I Timothy 5:17 when referring to the leading, guiding role of Elders

 

“The Elders who direct the affairs of the Church are well worthy of double honour, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching.“

 

Since he used the same term for Phoebe it would indicate that she too had a leading, a guiding, a protective function in her Church.

 

The New Testament Woman As Elder

 

The New Testament may well mention women elders. The Greek word for male Elders is “presbutero”. This word has at times been translated as “older men”.

The female version of this word is “presbuteras” which has usually been translated as “older women” but can be translated as “female Elders”.

 

One example is:

 

Titus 2:1-3

 

“You must teach what is in accord with sound doctrine.

Teach the older men to be temperate, worthy of respect, self-controlled and sound in faith, in love and endurance.

Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live.

Not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good.”

 

Here the text could very easily read:

 

“You must teach what is in accord with sound doctrine.

Teach the male Elders to be temperate, worthy of respect, self-controlled and sound in faith, in love and endurance.

Likewise teach the female Elders to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or to be addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good.”

 

These women were very likely female Elders who functioned as Teachers.

 

The New Testament Woman As Overseer Or Pastor

 

The New Testament uses the term “Elder”, Overseer” or “Pastor”, “Shepherd” to describe the same function as in I Peter 5:1-2:

”To the Elders among you, I appeal as a Fellow-Elder, a witness of Christ’s sufferings and who will also share in the glory to be revealed.

Be Shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care as Overseers- not because you must but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money but eager to serve.”

 

The term Pastor is not commonly found in the New Testament though we have one example in Ephesians 4:11

 

“It was He (Christ) who gave some to be Apostles, some to be Prophets, some to be Evangelists and some to be Pastors and Teachers.”

 

I Timothy 3:1-12 Paul wrote down instructions for Overseers and Deacons.

 

In I Timothy 3:1 he stated:

 

“Here is a trustworthy saying, “If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer he desires a noble task.”

 

The Greek word for “anyone” is “tis” and can be applied to either a male or a female person. Paul thereby implied that men and women could be overseers.

 

In I Timothy 3:2-7 Paul has given the qualifications for overseers. These qualifications are most likely specifically for male overseers.

 

In I Timothy 3:8-10 and verse 12 Paul has given the qualifications for deacons. These qualifications were most likely specifically for deacons.

 

In I Timothy 3:11 Paul turned his attention to women. Translators have interpreted this verse to deal with wives, marriage partners. We know from the original text that Paul addressed women and not men in this verse. Furthermore the original text does not indicate that  these women were the marriage partners of the Overseers or Deacons but were women who themselves functioned as Overseers or Deacons. Therefore a correct reading of the text is:

 

“In the same way, women are to be worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything.”  

 

Paul did not specifically mention that these women were to be the wife on one husband. This was because in Paul’s days men were allowed more than one wife at the same time while women were only allowed one husband.

Paul did not mention here either that these women were to manage their household well but he mentioned that in I Timothy 5:14

 

“So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.”

 

One example of a woman Overseer can be found in 2 John. There John wrote:

 

“To the chosen lady and her children…”

 

The Letter ends with the words:

 

“The children of your chosen sister send their greetings.”

 

It is clear from the contents of this letter that the Apostle John wrote this Letter to a female Overseer who had spiritual children advising her on things she needed to be aware of. He mentioned the children of a chosen sister at the close of the Letter undoubtedly referring to spiritual children of another female Overseer.

 

Paul mentioned a number of women in whose homes the church met. This expression very likely indicates that these women were Overseers or Pastors of House Churches.

 

Examples are:

 

Nympha as described in Colossians 4:15

 

“Give my greetings to the brothers in Laodicea and to Nympha and the Church in her house.“

 

In some Bible translations the name “Nympha” has been translated into “Nymphas” and the words “in her house” have been translated “in his house”. This is not a correct translation for the name should be translated as “Nympha” which is a female name and consequently the Church met “in her house”.

 

Chloe as described in I Corinthians 1:11

 

“My brothers some from Chloe’s household have informed me that there are quarrels among you.”

 

Priscilla who together with her husband pastored a church at their home as described in Romans 16:3-5

 

“Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my Fellow-Workers in Christ Jesus. They risked their lives for me. Not only I but all the Churches of the Gentiles are grateful to them. Greet also the Church that meets at their house.”

 

CONCLUSION

 

We have abundant evidence that God never called women to be silent. On the contrary, He called them to function as Prophets, as Apostles, as Evangelists, as Pastors, as Teachers, as Deacons or as Elders.

We have seen that men have not always been in agreement with God on this issue. Nevertheless, men and women are called to walk in obedience to His design and to work together according to their God-given gifts. This is to be done in perfect harmony as equals in being and in function for the sake of God’s Kingdom and for His glory.

 

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